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Old 07-25-2012, 10:49 PM
monogamishSF monogamishSF is offline
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Thanks. I've gone back and forth from feeling justified to yes, feeling like I did this to myself. Like I made it so bad for her that it was impossible for it to go well so it was impossible for it to continue so in the end we were back where we started and I'm safe again. I'm not saying that was my goal, but that was the result...

Her impatience with me definitely made it clear that "work" wasn't something she was equipped to do. She was willing...ish. To a point. I think part of this is us learning to understand what "work" really looks like. So far, work for us is just listening and talking and making agreements, but in the face of NRE, logistics don't feel that logical for any party.
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