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Old 07-25-2012, 09:15 PM
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I don't actually have any advice, but I do think it's rather a blow to lose your job because your job is shady. It's pretty natural to be depressed and therefore not in a place to make major life choices (including decisions about poly) after that hell.

I mean, shit, my dad got fired from the VA because he was a depressed vet working on their suicide prevention program. He lost it completely. So, no, being in a bad place is not unexpected. You'd have been perfectly reasonable to say "Let's wait until we're both doing better."

Much sympathy.
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