Originally Posted by newpoly1stwife
I know each situation is different but are there any basic 'rules or guidelines' we can reference for success.
I suggest that you both read "Opening Up" by Tristan Taormino. Read it together and discuss it. The author also makes some excellent checklists available on her website, which you can find here: http://openingup.net/resources/free-...om-opening-up/
Also, if you have specific questions, start a new thread and invite your hubs to join and participate. And you can always check out the Golden Nuggets section of this forum for more resources.