Hi all, I had lost my book mark and finally found an email to refind the page.
I set my foot down in regards to the girlfriend, and while that has been a rough road my husband and I are working on us. We still desire a poly relationship but I know it could never be with that woman. Right now my husband says I will probably say that about anyone he gets involved with but I have tried explaining that #1 if we entered it honestly and #2 as a joint agreement and #3 respect was maintained it could work very well. Even with the horrible experience I noted above I still really feel it is the best relationship type for us. So I guess my reason for coming and posting is that I am looking for ideas and suggestions for when we do look in the future. I know each situation is different but are there any basic 'rules or guidelines' we can reference for success.