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Old 07-25-2012, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted by pocketpoly86 View Post
Rule #6: Facilitate communication between all parties if you are the hinge.
I am the "hinge" in our relationship, and, while that is a good idea, it can only go so far. I have two strong-willed borderline introverted women in my life and at some point my efforts at facilitation back-fired on me - essentially they both told me to stop trying so hard and that if they want to talk to each other, they will!

Good idea in a case like your, though, and while everyone is reacting positively, I can certainly imagine it helping your situation! Glad that this seems to be improving for you!
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