I guess I don't really need any label for the relationship I have with him, at least I have a relationship with him.
Maybe when talking I could use the words secondary, or tertiary if the need arose? But not directly to describe what we have between us.
It will be scary but I will have to work up the bravery to tell him I would feel better with our relationship more clearly defined. He says I can talk to him about anything, so I just have to do it. *chicken* lol