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Old 07-24-2012, 01:02 AM
CherryBlossomGirl CherryBlossomGirl is offline
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Default Personal space...

I know what you mean about needing personal space when you're upset. Elemental always wants to cuddle, touch me or hug me when we are disagreeing or having a heated discussion, and I want exactly the opposite - to have space, and then to snuggle/cuddle when we are feeling back on track. I try to remember this when he is feeling upset and I am fine though, and hold his hand or rub his leg - I can make him feel so much better just by hugging him, even when he is having a hard time. It can be hard to remember that when it goes SO against what I would want!
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