Originally Posted by km34
He apparently CAN'T do poly. You're now using him so you don't have to get debt. Get out of there and let the man find someone who will actually be happy to be with him instead of leaving him yoked with you, the man who uses him for financial reasons and feels burdened by the expectation of being monoamorous.
Damn, that's brutal km34. My heart kind of lurched when you said it, but I'm pleased you did.
Me: male, 40, straight, single