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Old 07-22-2012, 03:55 PM
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Just wanted to throw out a third option beyond P primary and C secondary versus C primary and P secondary... P and C co-primaries, which it sounds like you are acknowledging will to some degree need to be the case anyway if, in fact, C ends up taking on a more primary-type role. This, of course, would be predicated on her being willing not just to meet you but to embrace you as, basically, a sister-spouse. May or may not be a workable option, but it seems to me like it could work just as well as either of the other two options.
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