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Old 07-22-2012, 02:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Mommyinthecloset View Post
Well its complicated to say the least.. I guess you could say were still trying to figure things out. it defiantly affects thing, and im hoping opening our relationship up and me seeing other people will help.. If/when I find someone im into... I think its going to take some time before its what I would call comfortable though..
"Relationship broken? Add more people!" is a joke, not an adage.

It sounds like you need to do individual work and work on your relationship with your husband before you open up. Very seldom does healthy polyamory result from such confusion; especially where more than two people are involved, everyone's got to know hirself, what zie wants/needs/likes, and where zie stands. If you are not at least an adequate self for your own purposes, how can you hope to be a good partner to anyone else?
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