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Old 07-22-2012, 01:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Fiona View Post
I am friendly with the other person she's currently seeing, and have heard that his wife has issues with her as well.
She sounds like a bull in a china shop, unaware of the mess she makes.
Originally Posted by Fiona View Post
I wish I could think of a way to smooth things over, if only because I think it's hard on my husband that we dislike each other. Sigh.
Is he all caught up in NRE over her? (I forget if you mentioned that) If so, it will be hard to get through. But maybe if you talk to the wife of her other lover, you two may be able to come up with ways to support each other while each of you has issues with her, and deal with her sort of as a cohesive team (???), and then you won't be seeming like haranguing your spouses about her. I dunno, just a thought.
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