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Old 07-21-2012, 06:30 PM
PinkDragon PinkDragon is offline
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Thanks, Annabel

That's the focus of everything right now. Because it makes her feel safe, she's sleeping in the bed with us, between us. Though she doesn't want Bear to touch her sexually, she does know that he /will/ protect her and just being beside him is helping.

Because I didn't know what her head space was when she got her I told her that I wouldn't touch her unless she told me to. She said, "I'm not going to break." LOL We actually fooled around a little night before last. I think she needed to know for sure that I don't think she's dirty or sullied. Everything was above the waist kissing, caressing, etc.

On the way home yesterday she was in the back seat of my van, my sister was driving, and I was in the passenger seat. She had her arms around me from behind for almost the entire trip. Seeing the little POS was very traumatic for her

This morning when we woke up we laid in the bed curled up together just kind of kissing and petting each other a bit. Not quite platonic, but not with the intention of having sex either. Kwim?

Whatever she needs, we will supply. Safety, rest, love, good food, shoulders to cry on, etc.
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