Hey, I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to Lovely. The girlfriend of a good friend of mine was raped by a stranger while coming to visit him and he's been dealing with terrible guilt. Giving her a safe place and support is a huge gift right now.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.