Well the Catholic guilt is strong with this one... but I'm here, so it is obviously not strong enough.
Sleeping with someone other than my wife. I don't know how I feel about it... Good and bad... I am trying to think of ho to explain it. It sounds great, I don't look at it with any hesitation, but I believe it is wrong, and I am sure that there would be a level of guilt there even though my wife said it was fine.
I feel fine that my wife put it on the table. She was not doing it for any reason other than love and I know that.
I believe you can love many people, and that love does not diminish any of your other love, just as another child does not change the love you have for those that you already have. But love is not the same thing as a commitment to marriage. On that score, my wife is right, no matter what, I will always come back to her.
any other input?