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Old 07-19-2012, 09:03 PM
bacon bacon is offline
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Question Secondary questions, feelings and stuff

I'm new here *waves*

I'm totally new to poly as well and I'm wondering how does one go about become a secondary partner? Is it a topic you bring up with the person your dating or do you wait for them to bring it up? I知 totally confused. I feel like I知 at the mercy of the guy I知 dating and his primary a bit but is that the way things are meant to feel? I知 wondering if I知 just a fling to him while I on the other hand have developed deeper feelings. He lives across the country and recently told me he can come to see me because he has to spend time with his primary. They live together!
So confused.
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