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Old 07-19-2012, 08:12 PM
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Let me just say, if I were the new guy and I found out that I was expected to be monogamous with your bf, even though he 1) has you, 2) isn't prepared for an emotional relationship, 3) might want to be with other guys, I would just laugh my head off and walk away. Hell any ONE of those things would be enough for me to say "wtf, no, that's a ridiculous double standard." I would encourage him to let go of that thought before even bringing it up to the new guy, because it's frankly just offensively condescending.
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