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Old 07-19-2012, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted by LostInCanada View Post
. . . he hopes that I don't get mad because he now gets to be with other guys, and I have to stay monogamous.
WTF? You "have to" stay monogamous? Says the dictator who thinks he can do what he wants and run your life? Um, what?

YOU have a choice. Grow a backbone, why don't you! YOU tell him what you want, and YOU are the one who chooses what you do with your life and your body. If he doesn't want to abide by it, he can walk.

Sheesh, the immature crap people put up with.
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