Once I feel comfortable with someone-I don't mind them knowing things about me and OBVIOUSLY if I'm comfortable enough to tell them I ran a business called Loving Radiance-they could dig up a LOT of dirt cause I tell you guys all sorts of stuff on here.
I'm really not a very private person. I honestly don't mind people knowing a lot about me.
It's more that I want my partners to understand that it's still MY right to decide, even if I decide I don't care and the world can know.
It's too easy for Maca to decide he can say whatever he wants "cause you don't care so what does it matter". What it matters is that it's MY life and MY privacy and mine to share.
Ironically, being committed to someone who struggles so much with respecting boundaries of others whilst having such strict boundaries about how others treat him has really made me anal about "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" even though functionally I'm SOOOOOOO much more easy going and nonplussed by shit like that.