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Old 07-18-2012, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted by LovingRadiance View Post
Exactly Tonberry! That topic got so out of hand this winter, I actually wiped clean all of the computers in the house of ANY photos of me that were even moderately suggestive or unclothed!
There has to be the RIGHT to privacy-even if I don't choose to keep myself private, it still has to be MY decision.
LR, I can see in a case like yours, where your primary is dating another whom you don't like or trust, it would be very violating to have him sharing sexual or intimate details. That could get very messy, indeed.

When I was dating a lot in 2009 and '10, I guess there is a slight chance some of the guys might have shared some things about me with their dude friends, but it really didn't affect our relationship. But anyone I was seeing seriously, I knew he wasn't going around town a lot talking about the woman he was banging, nor badmouthing me to his wife or another gf.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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