@SNeacail -- I get it, I do, as much as I can since I'm not actually dealing with what she's dealing with. I feel like such an ass for complaining when I *know* that she's having a much harder time than I am right now. Thank you for the perspective and advice. Once a month would be a dream at this point in terms of actual, planned dates. But the whole "Getting out for even 2 hours is a major accomplishment." thing is easy for me to lose sight of when my life is SO different, it's good to be reminded.
@BD -- Yeesh, kinda scary to hear that it's not necessarily gonna get much easier for another 17 years, and that's assuming that they don't have more kids, which they may... still, you guys are making it work, yeah?
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.