I've been on and off the board for 3 years.
I'm not prone to jealousy.
I am prone to getting fucking pissed when people break their agreements.
I am happily poly.
But, my poly dynamic has been full of jealousy and insecurity-because my husband tends to be possessive, jealous, insecure, clinging and has a tendency towards double standards.
However, I love him-as well as my boyfriend and I'm determined to work THROUGH his issues-not abandon him in order to find the "perfect relationship" because I don't believe those exist. I believe that every relationship, with every imperfect person has good and bad points and the goal is to maximize the positive and improve upon the negative.
SO-one last point-this isn't a "matchmaker" site. If you are looking for conversation-great location, but not really the venue for picking up partners per se.
"Love As Thou Wilt"