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Old 07-18-2012, 12:58 AM
milagro milagro is offline
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Join Date: Jul 2012
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hi everyone,

I recently joined (posted in the newbie thread), and although I haven't commented on any threads yet, I've been reading!

here's my latest conundrum - I'd be grateful for your opinions:

my boyfriend and I are new to poly, and he has had sex with one person since we opened up our relationship. they were friends first, and now she's dating someone else, so they aren't sexual anymore. here's the thing: this girl and my boyfriend have hung out a couple times since having sex, but I haven't seen her since (we'd met before).

Now, she's over here tonight hanging out, and I feel totally awkward. I have no idea how to act around her. I've been hiding out in my bedroom while she, boyfriend, and another girl are sitting in the living room. Is it normal to feel this weird? how do you act in this situation?
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