Originally Posted by CielDuMatin
The fact that you and she have been able to have an open and honest discussion about this issue is HUGE and it bodes well for a good outcome.
It sounds like the major issue here has nothing to do directly with either of you - it's all about him and his honesty.
So, if you don't mind me asking - are you going to put sex with him on hold until you have worked this through? Or is she ok with you and he continuing to have sex?
She told me personally that she no longer wants him to have a sexual relationship with me (This may also stem from them only having sex together twice in the last 7 months). I'm extremely hurt by this, and don't agree with that decision, but as her friend I told her I will respect her wishes and will let her know if he pushes for it. I really hope she changes her mind, because as I stated before I really don't want to be with anyone else.