Originally Posted by RunningMan
Just curious....Is it like totally chicken shit if I use a short letter to break the ice??
I'd at least preface it with "hey there's a subject I'm nervous about bringing up, I'm going to write it down in a letter for you so I make sure I'm being clear about what I'm saying" "I want you to take as much or as little time as you need to think about what you want to say back."
I don't know...is there any reason to think they ARE open to poly? Any reason to think they are NOT? If it's out of the blue, well, you might want to do a different approach.