Originally Posted by VegasMamma
Thank you SNeacail! I in no way meant to betray her, that is not the type of person I am, and I want her to fully realize that when we sit and talk. I really think the EX needs to sit in on this conversation too.
Of course you didn't mean to betray her, but that's likely how she is viewing the situation.
I don't see why the EX needs to be in on a conversation that is really about the relationship and boundaries of the 3 of you. Get the issues between the 3 of you worked out, then bring in the EX if there is going to be ongoing relationship with her also. The issue is about the communication and expectations the 3 of you and that all of you have been assuming and NOT communicating.