Originally Posted by Courious
Thanks for that. I've been thinking about your 1st reply all evening, and I am planning to talk to him gently, and soon. And, I will do it when we are most relaxed and comfortable together, which will probably be after a couple of drinks
And after bringing it up that way, I'm sure we'll additional, more sober conversations about it. I guess I just feel like the 'breaking the news' convo might go better if he's as relaxed as possible, ykwim?
I think that is a good idea. You can float out the idea again while he is relaxed and gage his reaction. You can then have a longer talk about it when you can both really focus.