Originally Posted by CielDuMatin
Welcome to the forum!
So what is stopping you from telling him? What are your concerns?
Thanks. Well what is really stopping me is I'm scared of how he will respond since I know he is afraid that if he shares me, I'll leave him. And that is a fear that he's carried over from his last relationship. Also, I'm not sure if the other guy would even be interested. I mean we get along great and he's attracted to me it seems, but he might not be interested in being tied to both of us like that. Because ideally I'm interested in poly fidelity. So I'm treading carefully at this point.