Originally Posted by Roam
SC, it sounds like you're saying that I should compartmentalize my time with my partner if I can't stand seeing her express love for someone else. I have several problems with that. First, her making dove eyes at others doesn't bother me....if she also makes dove eyes at me! It's the feeling of being emotionally replaced that bugs me about NRE and seems anti-poly to boot.
I was just saying it sounds like you could use some one-on-one time. Naturally you'll want her to also pay attention to you when you're out with other people, that's part of a healthy relationship. Right now it sounds like you're barely getting any focus at all, and that can only go on for so long.