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Old 07-13-2012, 03:06 PM
Petunia Petunia is offline
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Originally Posted by CielDuMatin View Post
The key concept here is that it's not a competition with a winner or loser. The idea is that with poly you don't HAVE to choose between partners, because you can have both.

So focus on YOUR relationship and make that the best that it can be, and don't worry about whether someone else is doing it differently, or better, or cooler - down that road lies madness.
I love this. I've been trying to express this to him, but you phrased it better than me.
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