Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat
If a woman is in a OPP marriage, and she's dating other men but not sleeping with them, most of those men will eventually lose interest for milkier cows. That may eventually cause her to become frustrated with the arrangement.
Rather than become frustrated with the arrangement, it really helped me determine who wanted to be with ME, and who just wanted sex. If they weren't happy abiding by my limits and respecting MC's and my agreement, they were more than welcome to keep sailing the dating seas without
me. These were not poly relationships, but more FWB arrangements, usually between significant others for them, so I didn't feel too sorry for the ones who decided that something was not, after all, better than nothing.