Originally Posted by Tonberry
Er, no, not necessarily. Why do you assume that those who have more than one male partner were ever in a OPP?
I've been in Vees with several males, and my male partners were okay with it. At no point did they say I could date women but no men. Therefore I have boyfriends, but my partners did not "get over it" or "get to a point". It just started that way.
I don't know if it can start as on OPP and evolve. I'm certain that some men never are comfortable with other men dating their wife or girlfriend. Hell, some men are never comfortable with their wife or girlfriend dating a female that they don't also have sex with.
Oh, no, I don't necessarily think all people were "at one time" in a OPP situation. Didn't mean for it to sound that way. I think some were at one time in one, and some never were.