Originally Posted by mercury
But on this board, I see it more often that many of the women talk about their boyfriends (other than their husband). So it would seem that men do get to a point where they can let their wife or long-term girlfriend have a boyfriend and not just a girlfriend.
Er, no, not necessarily. Why do you assume that those who have more than one male partner were ever in a OPP?
I've been in Vees with several males, and my male partners were okay with it. At no point did they say I could date women but no men. Therefore I have boyfriends, but my partners did not "get over it" or "get to a point". It just started that way.
I don't know if it can start as on OPP and evolve. I'm certain that some men never are comfortable with other men dating their wife or girlfriend. Hell, some men are never comfortable with their wife or girlfriend dating a female that they don't also have sex with.