So... I've read both threads and have a lot of thoughts.
what do you mean when you say love?
Because you say these people (two of htem) love you. But, nothing about what you've written signals to me that they love you. In fact, everything you've written suggests to me that they DO NOT love you but in fact are just using you.
Based on my understanding of love.... it would be impossible for them to love you and continue with the behaviors you have listed.
"Love As Thou Wilt"