I'm sorry to hear that things are rough right now. :/ It's so great to hear that Marty is getting treatment, though! Here's hoping things will get better all around.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.