Good point nyc. When I was basically single but dating, I wouldn't make a big deal out of being poly until anything got serious. After all, I assumed everyone was dating around. Sometimes it would come up in conversations with casual acquaintances and that could lead to all kinds of interesting things.
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."