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Old 07-12-2012, 03:01 AM
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My experience is that they don't "get over it".

Either they deal with the reality that there is another man in the picture-or they don't.

Generally, the situations where a woman "gave in" to wait out the man-the relationship ended up dissolving. Because the guy never did get to that point.

Part of facing a fear and overcoming it-is facing it. That means if they are afraid of the consequences-they have to face it to ever move past it.
Letting them wait it out tends not to work.

it's like trying to learn to swim by avoiding water.
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