Originally Posted by lovedaystar
Just wanted to give you an update:
I've decided to break up with the deaf fellow, but he refused to accept it, so we came to an agreement to take a break from each other, by not contacting and seeing each other for 30 days. (Actually till July 31st.) I told him that I already have two dates planned this month and he said okay as long it's just friends nothing more (physically wise).
Who cares if he 'refused to accept it'? It's a breakup, not a vote with a 'do-over'. You've written that you don't love him. Let him go, even if he doesn't like it. Also, why are you giving him power over your life? It's not his decision if the people you date are 'just friends' or not. It's your life and your decision.