Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray
TGIB is poly, just mono at the moment by circumstance, and I expect him to date others sometime in the future without having to end our relationship.
Do you ever worry he'll start dating someone who wants him to be mono with her? I'm thinking how much more valued I'd feel if C were able to say, "I wouldn't give you up; I love you too much to do that," but I suppose the fact that he would
give me up has less to do with how much he loves me and more to do with his not being committed to a poly lifestyle.
I'm starting to think I should start dating within the poly community, but I only happen to know 2 poly men and neither is right for me. I'm not brave enough to go to poly meet ups.