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Old 12-03-2009, 05:20 AM
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BUT I do like that she put it in terms that were not
"poly is good and swinging is bad" or
"poly is love and swinging is sex"
But she did umply that if you don't feel that connection with your partner's kids or want to reinvent yourself in your partner's life, then you're not really poly, you're just a swinger.

The part that really bothered me was this:
Poly partners want to grow closer in their relationships with others, often until the lines of distinction between the "old" pair and the "new" pair are completely blurred to all outside determination
I very very VERY strongly disagree with that. It's certainly not what *I* want in my poly relationships.
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