My closest "open minded friends" here at home are both (couples) sets, swingers (or have been for the most part).
I don't really care one way or the other.
BUT I do like that she put it in terms that were not
"poly is good and swinging is bad" or
"poly is love and swinging is sex"
I like getting different perspectives and ways of describing things.
I've had a poly-family my whole life because of location. But not due to sexual involvement among members.
BUT at the same time I am a VERY sexual person and can't fathom why Maca married his first wife knowing she didn't perform as he needed in that area (cause i sure wouldn't).
Yes-I am DEFINATELY pro-kids, would'nt have any if it weren't for my great sex life though... ok-well one wasn't sex so I would only have the 2 year old!!!!!!