Originally Posted by dingedheart
Hi and welcome,
You been poly for quite some time.......longer then 7 yrs. Have you had other relationships during your marriage ?
Why are you shocked at his reaction ?
I have not had GF since we have been married, no one I have been intimate with. My X and I were poly and I had a LTR that ended badly. She moved and cut off all contact when she got married.
I'm shocked I guess because we have had discussions about it over the years and he always seemed to be all for it. He is fine with me seeing another woman I just haven't found the ONE. I think he is struggling with who he is and who he thinks he's supposed to be. I am just greatful we have good communication.