Hi and welcome,
Is it a deal breaker if she not interested in both of you? Why not let the first date ...or two happen then see how it goes. Lower everyones expectations a little.
There are plenty of people here with similar experiences. In fact I think sexypixie and her husband started out the same way. She or they could be a good resource for you.
Last edited by dingedheart; 07-10-2012 at 08:05 PM.