This is a tricky one because on the other hand two men together is totally hot and I would love to see them loving each other, being affectionate and having sex. But then on the other hand, triads are something I've never really dreamed about. So I would have to decide which is more important to me.. If I could decide, I would actually prefer a situation where my male partner had a male partner but I would only be involved with one of them. That way I would get to see some affection between them, and the love, but not have to be in a triad.
Me: bi female in my 30's
Live-in partners: Hank and rory
Also dating: Yvonne and Zooey