Originally Posted by SNeacail
I don't agree, if the plan is to cut all contact with you once he does find a full time partner. If the plan is to scale back to a close platonic friendship if the new full time partner can't/won't do poly, that's different.
He keeps maintaining that all we will lose is the physical intimacy. But he finds so little time for me now, I don't expect much at all when he has a new partner. He's amicable with his ex-girlfriends, even says he still loves them, but he doesn't make time to spend with them.
Married to a monogamous man 15 yrs, mother of 2, dating C 3 yrs, and in a romantic friendship with L more than 20 yrs