All other things being completely equal, I would much prefer the two men to be sexually and romantically involved with each other as well as me! The idea is both very hot and very sweet, and it would, as long as things were going smoothly, make it easier to determine things like who slept where (we could just all sleep together more often than not). That said, I would by no means expect or require them to be involved if it didn't come naturally to them.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.