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Old 07-09-2012, 10:20 AM
Jaynine Jaynine is offline
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Yes, i beleive u are right about him changing becos of the special kind of relationship structure. It definately changes a persons way of thinking. I beleive it takes alot of personal work and growing up. The main thing i have noticed for me, going from a 24 year monomangous relationship with a very possesive, jealous husband, i feel more independant BUT have struggled with not being number 1. I was so used to having someone who only thought of me and only cared for me, in fact he claims he put me on a pedestal. Sadly i didnt feel any desire at all for him anymore and hadnt for a few years, i loved him only as a close brother. In some ways tho its nice to not have the demands of being number 1.
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