Originally Posted by mercury
I've talked to many of my friends about this, too, and they have the funniest responses to it. At least one told me, "You want to make sense out of it, 'cause that's how you are; things have to make sense. But this isn't about reasonable decisions. It's all coming from emotions."
They're right. You're trying to rationalize where it doesn't make sense to you. I do that also but sometimes it gets to a point where I have to be still and center myself, and mute that analytical voice so I can think about other things.