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Old 07-08-2012, 05:24 AM
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I suspect that people who want to call it biology are loathe to examine the complexities of choices and free will, etc.

bestofus, I would argue that many people do not use self-examination and make a conscious choice for monogamy. Just like people don't make a conscious choice (often) to be straight. It's the default, it's the majority. Most people don't even know there's any other option. In order to do something different than the majority, one has to feel, and believe, and examine, and question, and CHOOSE.

Sorry, Derby, doesn't seem like we're helping much with your premise.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
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Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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