I like the discussion. I think you bring up interesting things. I don't agree with your every premise, but unfortunately, I don't have the chops to delve into right now. I'll be back.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)