Originally Posted by Seraphic
I could be mono for my boyfriend. I once felt that same way with my husband, but I guess it boils down to a singular defining moment....
This could be an indicator.
What was the moment?
Ones selfish and treats you like an ATM ...the other lives to make you happy. One wants to try to use or bargain everything to get some benefit or personal advantage. You might be poly but given the players and situation it might be hard to tell.
There has to be guidelines or survey type questions to assess if you are being emotionally abused.....patterns of behavior, language, etc....it might be worth looking into.